Meet a girl in a club?
To meet a girl in a club-communicate immediately.
The next rule is that you should start communicating right away. In the article about internal dialogue, we found out that thoughts develop in a spiral. For example so: You walk into a club and for the first second you think:
“Wow, cool!” ,- then: “And I’m not in the subject..”, – then: “What are all the nasty people here that have fun without me…”.
Therefore, start communicating in the first 5-7 seconds with the first person you meet, so that you can immediately unleash your typhoon of communication. I would recommend to communicate according to the principle: 3 girls — 1 man. You need to approach them in turn and talk about any topic: what, where, which of the bartenders pours better, where you can get some fresh air here, what happened last weekend, why they didn’t bring such and such a DJ, why someone wasn’t allowed into the club… Men can be complimented on their appearance: you have an awesome jacket or an incredible watch, so that the guys melt a little, and the atmosphere in the club becomes more and more familiar to you.
After two such trips to a particular club, you will know the employees and some of the regulars, it will become easier to communicate with the guests and gradually the barrier between you and the rest of the party will be erased. Well, if even after a few trips you still have the feeling that at this party-you are the fat boy who is not called to play, then perhaps this is just not “your” club. Choose another one with the same beautiful girls.
If at some point you simply stop controlling how much you have drunk and go into the twilight, then I highly recommend introducing this rule: one dose of alcohol once an hour. Well, if you are the club bomber who does not fly without fuel, then always remember how much you have drunk. If you remember about all 33 shots, then the flight is normal, and if you are not sure whether it was 5 longs or 8, then it’s time to stop and do not use anything for the next 3 hours. Then you will always be on the level, at any second.
Calibrate the lightness.
We’re moving on. You approach the girls, you communicate, you start a conversation, and then somehow it goes out. Why is this happening? Most likely, it’s not about the techniques and not that you say something wrong. Perhaps you just have the wrong approach to seduction and you think not in abundance, but in a limited number of girls. That is, in the language of protopikaperov, those who even in the cave times crawled on all fours, ate foot food and invented a small pickup, this is called calibration. To meet a girl in a club, you have to look for girls who are ready to continue and it is not difficult.
When I first started studying the relationship between the sexes, I thought it was a great honor to come to a club, charm, seduce, and take away two sober virgin twins in front of their dad, but somehow it never worked.
And when I realized that there are a lot of beautiful girls who welcome easy communication, I immediately began to have fun in clubs. Conclusion: choose girls who are easy to contact. They are not the ones who sit languidly and sadly in the corner, and they are not the ones who are called “gulls”, because they sit at the bar like loons on the rocks in search of prey. These are girls who came to hang out, spend time and look for new acquaintances.
Test it three times.
It is clear that you can screw up a thousand times, but there are 3 important tests that you must do.
Test your spare time.
If a girl has plans to go home or to another club, you have to find out in the first 10 minutes.
Test for changing the place in the club.
Inside the club, you can move, take her hand and say-let’s go to the bar, to the dance floor or to the fresh air. If she followed you, that’s fine, and she won’t show off too much.
A test of touch.
If you have not touched the back of her hands to the tips of the hair, and hugged around his waist, holding onto his neck, wound hair on the ear, put her hands on his shoulders, you touched basin to each other and the girl was not distracted, not distanced, so the girl is friendly and it is also a good sign.
Then the technology is simple. When you have tested the girls with whom you communicate in the club, then among those who have passed all three tests, you choose the prettiest and take them away to meet the dawn for the sake of your common beautiful future.
The main thing to remember-do not get hung up on the idea of how to meet a girl in a club. If you come to the club — relax and enjoy everything — from the place, from people, from situations, from communicating with girls and from yourself. And then the evening will turn out exactly as you want it.