3 points for a successful seduction.
There are 3 main points, features, models that are most effective in any place and at any time, in order to fall in love with a girl.
These are: sincerity, confidence and flexibility.
This is a “weapon” that can be used absolutely everywhere and to any person. Everyone is pleased when they communicate openly, sincerely and do not hide anything. When the words of the interlocutor coincide with his thoughts. This is very convenient.
Women are very developed beings in terms of intuition, they are much stronger than men feel the inner state. According to statistics, they distinguish several character traits inherent in the so-called “real” men, that is, those who they like and whom they unconsciously want.
Along with perseverance, confidence, determination, and others, women believe that one of the most important male traits is the ability to directly and openly state what you think and what you want. The ability to be sincere, especially in relation to them. This is a trait of the brave, since you need to have a certain courage to openly talk about your desires.
Again, if a man can put in the place of a woman who sometimes goes too far, and directly tell her about it-this undoubtedly adds points to him in her further seduction.
The ability to be sincere, speaks of non-attachment to the result of communication, lack of concentration on this very result. That you are free from any expectations. The main thing for you is to say what you think about and not care what happens next. A woman sees in this that you do not care, that now she can leave, get angry, somehow in her own way, can react negatively, so you have a lot of people like her, if you do not value each specific and individual one so much. The man, in this case, automatically rises in her (female) internal “rating”.
Why else does sincerity work so well? Yes, because it is quite a rare phenomenon in our lives. Often, everyone tries to please, make as many compliments as possible, and so on. For many, one of the most important problems is what to say to the girl when approaching. Nothing!! The subtlety of this moment is precisely that men begin to invent something, try to be original, just when they do not need to invent anything. You need to be prepared for the fact that Your sincerity girl could answer his sincerity (here meant to say what I think), which you may not really like, but if you are on the positive and not trying to hurt her, the result is more than good. Sincerity works equally well everywhere and always. This is the universal” weapon ” of the seducer. It is not necessary to apply it immediately, immediately. All its beauty is that it can be used when, it would seem, everything is already lost and the situation is getting out of control.
Sincerity will melt even the iciest heart. Confidence.
This quality is important throughout the entire time – at the time of the first acquaintance and during the construction of a serious relationship.
If confidence is understood as the ability of a man to move to active actions, then this is the confidence that the woman ALREADY belongs to him, like everyone else, that he can afford to touch her, where he wants to, kiss, have sex. It is very important to show the girl THIS confidence, in addition to just confidence in yourself, in your goals, words…. The confidence that you allow yourself to do everything you do. Here it goes hand in hand with determination. It is very important to DO what you want. Or at least show the girl that you can easily go to any action (in terms of kinesthetics). That is, at the first communication, at least something should be: kisses, hugs, touches… Even if you are considering a girl for a long-term relationship, are in love, etc. she should still feel that you are ready to take her at any time.
The problem of falling in love is that the importance of the girl increases, and the man is afraid that he can scare her off by doing something “superfluous”. Indecision can make your meeting last. And in communication, in relationships, he is unlikely to be the main one, and a woman, as you know, is a slave being. Even the strongest (morally) female representative dreams of being weak and dependent. To have the same, strong and confident man next to you.
Women like to be confident, proactive, and determined. How many times have we had to regret what we didn’t do…. It is better to do and repent than not to do and repent.
Confidence should be in everything: in words, in gestures, in actions, in gait, look, posture, posture, etc.
Quality is absolutely necessary everywhere and in everything. This is the ability to react to the current situation, to its changes, the ability to instantly change tactics, approach, and avoid obstacles. It can be compared to perseverance in achieving a goal. Flexibility is like a chameleon: we need you. And we are green for you! You gave us yellow. And we are blue for you…. That is, any reaction to you, you instantly react, change and adjust the tactics of behavior. At the same time, it is important not to put pressure on the person (woman).
There is a humorous TV show on one of the famous channels, where one person says something to another, and the other answers him: “Yes, …BUT….” and continues the phrase. The first, in turn, answers him starting with the same words-yes, but… they argue. Important moment of their dialogue based on the fact that they seems to agree with someone (at the beginning of all phrases word-Yes), but continued to bend the line (But…..). They can be very flexible in communication.
It’s the same with women. A girl is by nature a being who will always (or almost always, depending on the stage of communication) test you for perseverance and say no. The other question is, when will she say no? She may try to put barriers at the very beginning of communication, when meeting, and maybe before intimacy. In any case, sooner or later you will have to show flexibility. And if you own it and know how to use it, then all the doors are open for you. It can be compared to perseverance, the only difference is that perseverance is more direct and open, and flexibility is like “going around the mountain”. At the same time, you do not deviate from your goal. (Here, flexibility and perseverance are practically the same thing). A man who knows how to communicate with women like a good diplomat, he will never break down, will not get angry, will not say no. Outwardly, it may seem that they agree with you, make concessions to you, but, in fact, the diplomat will bend his line, pursue his goal. Flexibility can be learned.
A skillful combination of all these qualities and their timely application give a very good effect. Over time, you no longer notice when and where you use one or another trait, or several at once. They grow into you so much that they turn on automatically. They become a part of your character, a part of you. Having these traits and developing them, you can achieve a lot. Asking yourself the question-How to fall in love with a girl – you can easily answer it.
Tempt and be tempted!